Children Develop Their Own Character
As a child develops their own character it is important that they pick up the good habits of their role models, and generally make those habits a part of their own everyday behaviour. If you, as a role model, can accentuate your more positive habits and eliminate the negative ones, this will greatly aid the the creation of a positive outcome for your child.
Words and Actions
Words and actions greatly impact on the confidence of children. Children, including adolescents, remember the positive statements from thier parents and carers. Phrases such as "I like the way you…" or "You are improving at…" or "I appreciate the way you…" should be used on a daily basis.
Be Generous With Praise
Be generous with praise. Parents must develop the habit of looking for situations in which children are doing good jobs, displaying talents, or demonstrating positive character traits.
Remember to praise children for jobs well done and for effort.